Kiran Opal has marked International Women’s Day by putting together accounts by 17 ex-Muslim women on her blog.
For those of us who have left Islam as a faith and as an identity, the pressure to stay silent is intense. For many ExMuslims, the price for speaking out about their skepticism, atheism, or agnosticism, is often very high. There is no one monolithic Muslim identity; there is nothing essentially, inherently âMuslimâ about someone born into a Muslim family. Yet, for too many people, Islam has become a racialized identity. Many Muslims and non-Muslims see the Muslim identity as a race, not just a doctrine. Although ExMuslims, whether âoutâ or âclosetedâ, do not identify as Muslim, others often insist on imposing this identity on us.
From the page on Muslim privilege:
Question:
What are the privileges you do NOT have as an Exmuslim woman that you did have as a Muslim woman? (e.g. speaking openly about your beliefs, etc.)Taslima:Â I no longer have the luxury of openly speaking about my beliefs and opinion of Islam without offending my family and friends. My family makes sense, because they are Muslim, but as an ex-Muslim woman, I am more or less culturally pressured into silence by a lot of American âprogressiveâ friends who will openly tell me to âstop being so Ayaan Hirsi Aliâ.
From the page on ex-Muslim privilege:
Question:
What are the privileges you DO have as an Exmuslim woman that you did not have as a Muslim woman?Maha:
Iâm freer than I would have ever been had things not gone the way they did ten years ago. I get to experience life to the fullest â the good and bad. I know what itâs like to fall in love, to be in a relationship, and to fall out of love or have my heart broken. I know what itâs like to try to make ends meet while working paycheck-to-paycheck. My friends hop, skip, and jump from longitude to longitude. I get to travel freely, explore freely, and think as much as my mind wants without the threat of hell or shame from a fake community.
The day I left Islam was the day humanity and science released me from the hell of religious solitary confinement.
I get to hug a dog and fall in love with him because heâs a beautiful soul â without horrifying screams from Muslims about washing my hands seven times to get rid of the pupâs kisses.




![Demonspawn [-1] 6 points 7 hours ago (26|20) Wearing a skirt has consequences. If we use state violence to protect women from the consequences of her choice to wear a skirt, we remove her agency. This man didn't assault her, didn't touch her... all he did was take a picture of what her choice in clothing exposed to the public. How is that criminal to the point of deserving of state violence upon him? This is saying that protecting women from the consequences of their choices in clothing is more important than men's freedom. permalink save source save give gold hide child comments [â]nigglereddit 5 points 6 hours ago (13|8) You're absolutely correct. If you wear clothing which exposes parts of your body from some angles, you have to expect that someone at that angle will see those parts of your body. You can't tell everyone not to see you from those angles because you're not comfortable with that part of your body being seen; that's ridiculous. If you're uncomfortable it is your job to cover that part of your body. permalink save source save parent give gold [â]DaNiceguy [-2] 4 points 4 hours ago (11|7) Ah but you see the wrong man saw it. That makes him a criminal, right?](http://manboobz.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/demonskirt.png?w=604)
