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Brag elsewhereOh ffs. If you don’t understand something that basic go do something else. Leave women alone. Go shout at magpies or the man on the telly or the sky. Leave us alone.
But the issue here is not objects, it's feelings. If Dr Stock says she feels she is a lesbian we believe her. Why then do we not believe a trans woman when she says she feels like a woman? Both are responding to a sensibility at odds with their biological reality
— Billy Bragg (@billybragg) May 31, 2023
Because saying you’re a lesbian (or a gay man) is not an extraordinary claim. Same-sex attraction and love has been known about for literally thousands of years. and it … Read the rest
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By Ophelia Benson, May 31, 2023
Oh ffs. If you don’t understand something that basic go do something else. Leave women alone. Go shout at magpies or the man on the telly or the sky. Leave us alone.
But the issue here is not objects, it's feelings. If Dr Stock says she feels she is a lesbian we believe her. Why then do we not believe a trans woman when she says she feels like a woman? Both are responding to a sensibility at odds with their biological reality
— Billy Bragg (@billybragg) May 31, 2023
Because saying you’re a lesbian (or a gay man) is not an extraordinary claim. Same-sex attraction and love has been known about for literally thousands of years. and it … Read the rest
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Brag elsewhere Oh ffs. If you don’t understand something that basic go do something else. Leave women alone. Go shout at magpies or the man on the telly or the sky. Leave us alone.
But the issue here is not objects, it's feelings. If Dr Stock says she feels she is a lesbian we believe her. Why then do we not believe a trans woman when she says she feels like a woman? Both are responding to a sensibility at odds with their biological reality
— Billy Bragg (@billybragg) May 31, 2023
Because saying you’re a lesbian (or a gay man) is not an extraordinary claim. Same-sex attraction and love has been known about for literally thousands of years. and it … Read the rest
Interrupting
Reminder, or new information if you didn’t know it: if you want to joke or gossip about something entirely irrelevant to a serious post, the place for that is not the serious post but the Miscellany Room.… Read the rest
Familiar to many women
Madeline Grant at the Times on Ed Balls trying to patronize Kathleen Stock:
Given the crisis unfolding in UK daytime TV, I shouldn’t have been surprised to turn on Good Morning Britain and be confronted with a bona fide monster. To her detractors on social media, Prof Kathleen Stock is the ultimate bogeywoman.
One of them. Let’s not forget JKR, and Maya, and Julie, and Allison, and – they are many.
… Read the restYou’ll be shocked – I repeat, shocked – to hear that Twitter doesn’t reflect reality. Instead, what GMB viewers saw was a clear thinker and lucid speaker with a dry and understated wit. Perhaps all those years of harassment and intimidation by maniacs have afforded Stock a certain gallows
We gonna stomp you
The choice of Nancy Sinatra’s song These Boots Are Made For Walkin’ was a crude threat. It blasted out of speakers deployed by extremist members of the trans lobby as Kathleen Stock entered the Oxford Union to take part in a debate yesterday. As admirers of the 1966 hit will recall, it promises: “And one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.”
On the one hand they’re the most persecuted fragile vulnerable tragic people who’ve ever lived, on the other hand they’re going to walk all over feminist women. I’m not sure those two claims can be made compatible.
… Read the restDr Stock was backed by the prime minister before her appearance
All is a crime, all shall have punishments
The UK’s National Education Union aka NEU issued a statement yesterday, no doubt as a hex against the danger of all those witches running around talking about women and our rights. It’s a breathtaking piece of writing, especially coming from an organization that links itself to education.
The statement is a statement on transphobia. The statement states that it is
A clear expression of the union’s commitment to protecting trans members from harassment and offensive conduct.
Then it defines transpobia.
… Read the restTransphobia is the fear or dislike of someone based on the fact that they are or are perceived of [sic] as trans or trans allies. It can take place through words or actions, expressing itself as harassment or
Reasonably perceives
But they perceive everything as offensive. They perceive reality as offensive.
"Transphobic behaviour will amount to harassment where the complainant reasonably perceives it as creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for them"
National Education Union getting it right https://t.co/3PFQG14nCO
— Sandy 💜💙❤ 🏳️🌈 Ally She/Her (@sullivansa1) May 31, 2023
Measure the distance between the knees
Also there’s the hur hur she’s a man approach.
I note the best some on the other side can come up with is "lol prof stock looks like a bloke"
You really do our work for us sometimes.
Lesbians, actual real lesbians you understand, hear this sort of abuse all the time.
In my community we call that "classic homophobia"
— Dennis Noel Kavanagh (@Jebadoo2) May 31, 2023
K Stock is a woman, you utter melt. https://t.co/MtDeqFVrlx
— Gaye Chapman ⚢ (@my_real_name) May 31, 2023
Saying that a lesbian is really a man. How novel. https://t.co/sKTCPphV4E
— Sue Veneer 💜🤍💚 (@sueveneer) May 31, 2023
… Read the restAccidentally sat with my thighs apart in the car.
Must try womanning harder.
— Emma Hilton
The refusal to distinguish between fact and opinion
Cath Leng points out that actually the Channel 4 program took a very trans activist-friendly view of the core issue.
I’m sure the #GenderWars producers consider themselves brave and impartial, but the programme was predicated on the same failure of judgment I’ve come across in so many BBC meetings: the refusal to distinguish between fact and opinion. That’s entirely a trans advocate position.
— Cath Leng (@leng_cath) May 31, 2023
It’s not an opinion that men are not women, it’s a fact. That matters.
… Read the restThe first line told us what to expect: ‘a toxic culture war has been raging’ and later my personal teeth grinder – ‘toxic war of words.
It swiftly cites unquestioningly the contested concept of ‘gender
Even more unhinged
That letter, the one signed by Stephen Whittle and Finn McKay among others – it’s remarkably bad. Couldn’t they find someone to write a literate and coherent few hundred words? If they could, why didn’t they?
On Tuesday 30 May 2023, C4 is screening a documentary with the title ‘Gender Wars’.
We, the undersigned transgender and non-binary (TNB)people are featured in the documentary,
· DID NOT AGREE to take part in the documentary viewers will see, and
· would NOT HAVE AGREED to take part in any documentary focused on Kathleen Stock.
Either omit “are” before “featured in the documentary” or add “and” after it. For cryin’ out loud.
… Read the restWe wish to clarify to our peers within the
About 400 issues
Lucy Mangan at the Guardian on “Gender Wars”:
Channel 4 has bitten the bullet and is the first, I think, to produce a programme giving voice to both sides of what is usually called “the trans issue”. However, the first problem it faces is that “the trans issue” is actually about 400 issues packed into one, which has partly contributed to the endless difficulties in approaching, let alone resolving, it.
What are some of them? The incompatibility with women’s rights of course. The fact that it’s not true. The damage people do to their bodies trying to make it true. The entitlement that seems to go with it for so many. The maudlin hyperbolic rhetoric. The unwarranted belligerence. The … Read the rest
Better than pink shorts
We were talking earlier about existential cuteness and puppy videos.
Look at ‘em ….🤣 https://t.co/NtcnKJUHHY
— J. Dreyfus Esq & Master Hobbes (blue tick each) (@DreyfusJames) May 30, 2023
Those who rail
Channel 4 (UK)’s Gender Wars aired a couple of hours ago and was apparently very good, and not one long rant about terfs.
Those who rail at Kathleen Stock have ensured more people want to hear her talk. Those who’ve already denounced “Gender Wars” – on C4 at 10 pm this evening – will boost its viewing figures. And since KS is a moderate & a brilliant speaker, she will peak the nation.
Well done all!— Bev Jackson (@BevJacksonAuth) May 30, 2023
… Read the restJust watched a preview of @Channel4’s Gender Wars doc that’s on tonight. Thought it was v fair & balanced – both sides got to put their points forward in a way that was humanising & sympathetic.
Chrissy attempts the “if you”
No, sir, this is wrong.
'When you listen to that phrase “a debate about trans existence, trans rights"… if we were to talk about black people and debate your existence, how would you feel?'
Trans Activist Chrissy discusses protests in Oxford against Kathleen Stock and her views on transgender rights. pic.twitter.com/HjyS4XNKq0
— GB News (@GBNEWS) May 30, 2023
The guy with glasses and a microphone asks the guy in the purple top what he has made of what’s happening, particularly of “the professor, who’s come here to be part of a debate.” Purple top guy laughs a skeptical laugh and says “When you listen to that phrase itself, ‘a debate,’ a debate about, uh, trans existence, trans rights – if … Read the rest
Cuteness overload
Oooooooh Hi yourself, cutie. Aren’t you just adorable?!
Hi 🌟 pic.twitter.com/LCZQc8ect4
— India Willoughby (@IndiaWilloughby) May 30, 2023
Just look at the lovely little fella. The bent knee/pointed toe – isn’t that sweet? The hand behind the head – so so cute! The darling pink shorts, the rakish denim shirt tied rakishly in a rakish knot, the darling winsome smile – he’s a far better woman than all you stubborn boring women who don’t take selfies with Pointed Toe.… Read the rest
Direct influence
Suzanne Moore says the empire is tottering at last.
Susie Green, the former chief executive of Mermaids, who stood down “unexpectedly” last year, has been hiding in plain sight for so long that I sincerely hope we can see her clearly now. How this woman was ever allowed to have so much influence over vulnerable children, never mind medical professionals, is frankly disturbing.
No medical training yet she bossed the medical professionals around and they asked her for more.
… Read the restWe now find that Green herself had direct influence on policy at the gender identity development service (GIDS) at the Tavistock. After
being told thatthe Tavistock [claimed it] did not have any records of meeting with Green,
So that was a lie then?
JK Rowling says Patrick Strudwick told a huge brazen lie.
As @PatrickStrud has blocked me on here (we've never, to my knowledge, interacted on Twitter or anywhere else) I can't challenge him directly about the claim he published in iNews (see below) that a Let Women Speak event in Australia 'staged a mass Nazi salute'. This is a lie so… pic.twitter.com/X6nAA3xxNH
— J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) May 29, 2023
It’s one of those new long tweets that subscribers get to do.
… Read the restAs @PatrickStrud has blocked me on here (we’ve never, to my knowledge, interacted on Twitter or anywhere else) I can’t challenge him directly about the claim he published in iNews (see below) that a Let Women Speak event in Australia
Banging on an open door
Yes but no one says trans rights are not human rights. Trans people have human rights. The issue is fancy new bespoke rights that aren’t rights at all, because they trample on everyone else’s rights.
Incredible scenes at UCU Congress 2023 as the entire hall reaffirms that trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️
Our union stands unequivocally with the trans community#ucuTOGETHER pic.twitter.com/llw2UATs1z
— UCU (@ucu) May 29, 2023

Guest post by Jonathan A. Gallant
Some children, particularly at early ages, like to imagine themselves being cats, dogs, lambs, or other lovable animals, and they display their choice by making appropriate animal noises.
I have established a foundation to help empower such children in their new identity. The program, which we call affirmative affirmation, provides psychological affirmation, instruction about the animal of choice, imitation fur, and such medical interventions—pharmacological, dermatological, and surgical—as may become available as cutting-edge research in this exciting new area proceeds. Contributions to the foundation can be sent directly to me, preferably in cash. We accept $, but no longer accept British, Swedish or Finnish currency. … Read the rest
Causing upset
Nails.
Our youngest is severely learning disabled, that upsets me. I can’t pretend it’s not true – I accept it & support her. She has to live in the world which won’t bend to fit her. Biological sex isn’t bigotry it’s reality. Silencing women doesn’t change it .pic.twitter.com/s9Bm32eS9U
— Nicky Clark (@MrsNickyClark) May 29, 2023
It’s not an obscene word
And again, not two years ago but today.
🤔 #DidYouKnow every day 800 million people aged 15-49 menstruate?
This means there are 800 million reasons to break the silence about periods.
This #MenstrualHygieneDay, join @UNFPA to ensure equitable access to essential resources: https://t.co/100EDjIv6i pic.twitter.com/Nnfht3CjpQ
— United Nations Geneva (@UNGeneva) May 29, 2023
800 million WOMEN.… Read the rest