Her brothers ended her marriage because her husband ‘had lied about his tribal background.’
Author: Ophelia Benson
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Global Attention Makes a Difference
Shock at flogging sentence for Saudi rape victim put pressure on oppressive system.
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Woman Murdered by Husband on Wedding Night
He fumbled, so he decided she wasn’t a virgin, so he killed her.
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Mukhtar Mai Still Being Harassed
These tactics are clear obstacles in her efforts to help the poor women of rural Pakistan.
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All Aspects of Diversity?
Politicians must not be allowed to stifle debate on religious issues that matter.
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Somehow
Blind fingers-in-ears lalalala denial is interesting to see. It is not so because it cannot be so because it would be bad if it were so therefore it is not so; do you understand.
Violence against women is sadly a global human rights issue and occurs within all communities, regardless of race, class, culture and faith. It is troubling when this occurs in some communities because the media are quick to focus the story on “issues in the community” that have led to Aqsa’s slaying. The story becomes about how some communities have a greater tolerance for violence against women.
Funny old media, focusing on what appears to be the grim reality of what led to Aqsa’s murder; they should have ignored all that and pretended it was inexplicable and random. And how terrible that the story should become about the fact that some ‘communities’ have a greater tolerance for violence against women, even if it is in fact the case that some ‘communities’ have a greater tolerance for violence against women. Why? Well, because…because they’re communities, so they must be nice, right? (No one ever talks about the fascist community or the racist community or the Neo-Nazi community – so all communities are nice – surely.)
The discussion of this homicide as stemming from issues of a “clash of cultures, faith, the hijab” misrepresents the issue of violence against women. Violence is about the power and control of women by men.
Uh…yeah, violence is indeed about the power and control of women by men, and religion very often provides the pretext for exactly that. If the hijab were not about the power and control of women by men, then why would women get beaten up in so many places for refusing to wear it?
The assertion that this violence reflects the community and Islam is rooted in both racism and Islamophobia. Violence is not a value in any culture or faith community.
Really. Any evidence for that claim? None that’s offered, at any rate – it’s pure assertion. ‘Violence is not a value in any culture’ – well where does it come from then? Godalmighty – does Cindy Cowan think all violence is a product of epilepsy or something? The assertion that violence is not a value in any culture is rooted in a near-deranged level of denial.
Media preoccupation with this young woman’s background supports the myth that the incidence of violence and murder of women is somehow greater in these “other” communities, but this is false.
False, is it? Any evidence for that claim? No again. Which is depressing, because this Interim Place that Cindy Cowan is the executive director of is a women’s shelter. She kind of needs to know something about this subject, and she appears to know less than nothing; she appears to know minus-facts, anti-facts. She seems to think that the incidence of violence against and murder of women is exactly the same in all ‘communities’ as opposed to being ‘somehow’ (that ‘somehow’ is interesting – as if she can’t even figure out how such a thing could possibly be, even in principle) greater in some than in others. She seems to live in an alternate universe.
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Academic Freedom and Evolution
‘It is not indoctrination for professors of biology to require students to understand principles of evolution.’
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Teenage Rebellion
Parents who don’t want daughters to wear hijab get upset too. Yes but do they kill the daughters?
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Tarek Fatah Asks a Question
‘How many more Muslim girls have to die before the liberal intelligentsia says the hijab is a symbol of oppression?’
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Life in Polygamy
“Living ‘the law’ was like torture. It went beyond self-sacrifice to the point of totally rejecting self.”
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Denial in Action
Not true that ‘the incidence of violence and murder of women is somehow greater in these “other” communities.’
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An Imam Explains
‘This girl, she refused to stay at home and there was the feeling that she was going in the wrong direction.’
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Nigel Warburton and Tom Hurka on The Grasshopper
It’s both philosophically profound and a literary masterpiece.
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Why We Must Continue Writing for Freedom
Many women around the world risk their lives to reveal what they know about violence against women.
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Never forget Aqsa Parvez
Aqsa Parvez is another victim of honor killing, She, too has been tried and sentenced to death by her family’s belief, for not honoring the backward culture and traditions which are promoted and guarded by religious movements in particular the Islamist movement globally. Amongst all other girls and women who have been victims of honor killing, Aqsa Parvez, a sixteen-year-old, studying in grade 11 at a high school in Mississauga, Ontario – as well as Heshu from England, Fadima from Sweden and Hutun from Germany – were murdered in so called Islamic communities in Western countries, for not honoring the inhuman tradition. These victims had the desire to live in a modern society, and all wished to determine their own lifestyle and they were not willing to compromise for less.
The death of Aqsa Parvez at the age of 16 is just a tip of the iceberg in Canada, where respect for backward cultures and religions comes before women’s and children’s rights, where cultural ghettoes have become an ideal heaven to crush any desires in women. In the case of Aqsa Parvez, a brave girl who put herself at the forefront of the struggle for a well deserved human life, the Islamic groups that promote Islamic law and Islamic school and are looking for more shares in power should be held responsible the most. They are the ones who push for enclosed and regressive communities in the heart of Canada and who have created little Iran, Afghanistan, Somalia or Pakistan. They are the ones to blame for convincing families and individuals to accept the barbaric rules and regulations, and for not having any mercy for their own children and family members.
This cruelty to our children and women should not be tolerated and must be condemned strongly. Harsh punishment must be considered for those who abuse or victimize children and women as so-called ‘Islamic action.’ The advocates of freedom and secularism should come forward in full force for the principle of the rights of the child. The fact that religion is the private matter of the parents and should not be imposed on the child and infringe on the child’s civil rights is confirmed and established as a social norm.
We need to come forward in full force against any policies that pursue a cultural and social segregation, against any practice that undermines the rights and wellbeing of the child. We need to promote integration. The state needs to take an active part in providing intense education to women and children who suffer from abusive relationships, especially where enforcement of tradition is involved. A very strong support network is needed for the youth and women who are seeking protection from parents and partners; and to prevent honor killing, Canada also needs to stop promoting and funding religious groups.
Homa Arjomand
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Farzana Hassan on Saudi Rape Victim
The Saudi justice system renders women voiceless: non-persons without freedom and socially marginalized
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Who killed Aqsa Parvez?
A medieval ethos that treats women as nonpersons, unable to decide for themselves.
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Abuse at Christian Brothers Facility in Galway
Report outlined harrowing allegations of assault; 21 residents claimed they were raped and beaten.
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Review of Chris Mooney’s Storm World
Nuanced account of major areas of disagreement over possible effects of global warming on hurricanes.
