A particularly American personality

Robert Reich points out that it’s a bad idea to let raging narcissists have a lot of power.

Like Donald Trump and Elon Musk for example.

First is Elon Musk, who last Friday fired half of Twitter’s 7,500 employees, including teams devoted to combating election misinformation – and did it so haphazardly and arbitrarily that most had no idea they were fired until their email accounts were shut off.

This was after he fired Twitter’s executives to avoid paying them the golden parachutes they’re owed. And after posting an article suggesting without evidence that Nancy Pelosi’s husband, Paul Pelosi, was in a drunken fight with a male prostitute.

Attention: the fox is inside the chicken coop.

But this has been his MO all along.

Taunting opponents. Treating employees like dung. Bullying adversaries. Demeaning critics. Craving attention. Refusing to be held accountable. Attracting millions of followers and gaining cult status. Spreading misleading information. Making gobs of money.

Impetuous. Unpredictable. Ruthless. Autocratic. Vindictive.

I don’t know anything about any of this because I’ve never paid attention to Elon Musk. I have no idea how he made those gobs of money – I know it’s to do with a car, but why that one car=richest guy in the known universe I have no idea (and don’t care).

Reich says he’s not Trump 2 but he is all too similar.

But both represent the emergence of a particularly American personality in the early decades of the 21st century: the wildly disruptive narcissist.

That’s unfortunate, because narcissists are horrible even if they’re not wildly disruptive. Why are they? Because they’re focused on self. That’s never a good thing. Self is small and the world is big – there are far more important things to focus on than self. Self just doesn’t matter that much. It matters; we wouldn’t be able to survive and get something done with no sense of self; but it doesn’t matter that much. And another thing about it of course is that it doesn’t matter to anyone else as much as it matters to its owner. Self always looms large and that’s a distortion that we have to learn to correct for. I don’t suppose we can correct completely, but we can do better than the trumps and musks of the world.

Both wield sledgehammers to protect their fragile egos. Both are utterly lacking in empathy. Both push baseless conspiracy theories (such as the one cooked up about Paul Pelosi).

Zero empathy is a weird spectacle. I wish we hadn’t been forced to spectate so much of it over the past seven years.

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