What’s wrong with this menu of assertions?
First, the “deserve to be visible” item.
No they don’t. That’s just silly. Nobody “deserves” to be visible.
Perhaps the intended meaning is that trans people shouldn’t be kept out of sight as if they were the Alien, but then that’s a much more limited and hence plausible claim. It’s not clever to overreach this way on human rights issues. You just sound like a crank instead of a thoughtful observer.
Then, the second column, where all the ways we have to flatter trans people are listed. They don’t work. There are too many of them, and most of them demand too much. Sure, other things being equal, everyone deserves to be safe. All the others are extras, which depend on circumstances and facts and inconvenient criteria like that. Most of them depend on other people being massively generous with our time and attention and emotional labor, and it’s just not at all clear why we all owe that to trans people in particular. We all deserve nice things unless we don’t, and trans people don’t have some magic extra layer of deserving. Nobody is required to cherish them or celebrate them or understand them or uplift them.
All this baby talk is so cringeworthy. Feminists didn’t come bouncing up demanding love and cuddles and 24/7 attention. We demanded equal rights and an end to contempt. The basics.
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