Her sentence has been dropped and she has her passport back.… Read the rest
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Where were the women?
Jul 21st, 2013 6:03 pm | By Ophelia BensonSalon just woke up and rubbed its eyes and realized it had forgotten to publish an article asking why all the New Atheists are men, so a mere five years late it has now done so.
“New Atheism” is old news. Enter “New, New Atheism”: the next generation, with its more spiritual brand of non-belief, and its ambition to build an atheist church. It is an important moment for the faithless. Will it include women?
Wait wait wait. New, New already? No I don’t think so. We’re really not through with the Old New yet. Also – the atheists I know are not “more spiritual,” nor do they want to build an atheist church. Mostly. Maybe Chris Stedman and … Read the rest
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As complicated as it gets
Jul 21st, 2013 4:46 pm | By Ophelia BensonKathryn Hamen heaves a large sigh and wonders why the London Review of Books has such a very hard time finding women.
… Read the restHaving been asked, I told them: the ridiculously low number of women who are represented in each edition of your otherwise worthy journal is, well, ridiculous. The reply: It’s complicated, “as complicated as it gets”. The response was genuine in its bafflement and its hand-wringing consternation, and ended by stating that the editors at the LRB were desperate to change the situation.
To which I replied: then change it.
And then I posted the exchange on my blog, where it was retweeted and picked up by Salon.com in the US. Many people responded with, “I’ve been
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Nada al-Ahdal
Jul 21st, 2013 3:28 pm | By Ophelia BensonThere’s an 11-year-old girl in Yeman, Nada al-Ahdal, who has a lot of courage and good sense.
A video, posted on YouTube, shows an 11-year-old Yemeni girl called Nada al-Ahdal recounting how she escaped her parents who wanted to force her to marry. Nada comes from a modest family and is one of eight siblings. Fortunately for her, her uncle Abdel Salam al-Ahdal, a montage and graphics technician in a TV station, decided to take her in when she was three years old, to live with him and his aging mother, away from her parents.
Here is that video:
I would have had no life, no education. Don’t they have any compassion?
That is indeed the question.… Read the rest
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Het melkmeisje
Jul 21st, 2013 12:28 pm | By Ophelia BensonI had a poster of this on a wall once. Via Wikimedia Commons.
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The speculation is
Jul 21st, 2013 12:11 pm | By Ophelia BensonOh goody, more “women are giving” and “men are stalwart” blather in the New York Times. I wish the mainstream media would stop pushing this bullshit.
… Read the restThe mere presence of female family members — even infants — can be enough to nudge men in the generous direction.
In a provocative new study, the researchers Michael Dahl, Cristian Dezso and David Gaddis Ross examined generosity and what inspires it in wealthy men. Rather than looking at large-scale charitable giving, they looked at why some male chief executives paid their employees more generously than others. The researchers tracked the wages that male chief executives at more than 10,000 Danish companies paid their employees over the course of a decade.
Interestingly, the
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Insert favorite laughter gif here
Jul 21st, 2013 11:54 am | By Ophelia BensonYou know what’s funny? When people rage about “keyboard warriors” and “slacktivists” who don’t do things that matter and don’t make things happen, but just hide behind their keyboards and rage emptily online…
…and they do this raging…
(can you guess?)
…on Facebook and Twitter!
It’s like calling someone on the phone to complain about phones.
It’s like driving to the supermarket and on the way raging about all the god damn people out here in their cars cluttering up the place.
It’s like taking a trip to Florence and raging about all the tourists in Florence.… Read the rest
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Boycott mass
Jul 20th, 2013 6:09 pm | By Ophelia BensonSurvivors of the Magdalene laundries are calling on Catholics to boycott mass tomorrow to protest the refusal of the church to pay compensation to the women.
I would love to say “do it!!” but I doubt that I have many readers who normally attend Catholic mass. Well, to tell the truth, I doubt I have any.
… Read the restThe group Magdalene Survivors Together asked people to stand with them and to withhold donations to local churches as a show of solidarity.
A spokesperson for the group said it was disappointed that the nuns are not contributing financially to a fund set up to provide compensation. The four orders have instead said that they will provide access to their records to allow for
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Claude
Jul 20th, 2013 5:21 pm | By Ophelia BensonAs requested…and I’ve been thinking I would do more of it anyway, because I like it too, and they’re public domain.
I’ve had a big poster of this one on my bathroom wall for years. Monet, Apple Trees in Bloom.
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Cosmopolitan?
Jul 20th, 2013 5:15 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe BBC talked to the Norwegian woman punished for being raped in Dubai. She is Marte Deborah Dalelv.
Ms Dalelv says she had been on a night out with colleagues on 6 March when the rape took place.
She reported it to the police, who proceeded to confiscate her passport and seize her money. She was charged four days later on three counts, including having sex outside marriage.
That certainly strikes an outsider as a very odd criminal justice system – one that grabs the passport and money of a foreign woman who reports being raped.
Her alleged attacker, she said, received a 13-month sentence for extra-marital
sex and alcohol consumption.
No no no, try to focus. The issue isn’t … Read the rest
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Save Josephine Komeh
Jul 20th, 2013 4:17 pm | By Ophelia BensonWhen I signed this petition my signature was number 24, and it needs a LOT more than that. So please both sign it and publicize it on social media.
… Read the rest63-year old Josephine Komeh is a courageous fighter against FGM/Cutting in Sierra Leone who opposed it in the most practical way – by refusing to cut girls and young women herself. She was severely tortured because she had defied the traditional authorities that maintain this brutal practice.
Josephine sought asylum in Britain, where the Government condemns FGM, but the Home Office plans to deport her on 24th July. She will face further torture back in Sierra Leone unless she agrees to cut. There is no-one there to protect her: her husband
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The Merciful
Jul 20th, 2013 1:16 pm | By Ophelia BensonA Norwegian woman went to Dubai on a business trip. It didn’t go well.
… Read the restThinking that the police would help her, she reported the rape to them… and ended up in jail, her passport stripped from her. She spent three days there before she was allowed to use a phone to call her family. They, in turn, called the Foreign Ministry and the Norwegian Consulate, who were able to get the woman released into their custody. They took her to the local Norwegian Seaman’s Center, where she stayed for 6 months until her sentencing.
If that’s not enough to outrage you, her sentence will be: she will be spending 16 months in jail. Alone, in a
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Helen Thomas 1920-2013
Jul 20th, 2013 12:39 pm | By Ophelia BensonA blazer of trails.
When Ms. Thomas took a job as a radio writer for United Press in 1943 (15 years before it merged with the International News Service to become U.P.I.), most female journalists wrote about social events and homemaking. The journalists who covered war, crime and politics, and congratulated one another over drinks at the press club were typically men.
Covering war, crime and politics was mostly a guy thing.
… Read the restShe worked her way into full-time reporting and by the mid-1950s was covering federal agencies. She covered John F. Kennedy’s presidential campaign in 1960, and when he won she became the first woman assigned to the White House full time by a news service.
Ms. Thomas was also
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Distracted during Ramadan
Jul 20th, 2013 12:15 pm | By Ophelia BensonProblem-solving in the province of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa in Pakistan – it’s Ramadan, so the thing to do is remove all sources of temptation. Or, at least, one source of temptation to one part of the population.
… Read the restClerics in northwest Pakistan have issued a temporary ban on women shopping unless accompanied by a male relative, a police official said on Saturday, in a step designed to keep men from being distracted during the holy month of Ramadan.
Police are supporting the ban, announced over mosque loudspeakers on Friday in Karak district in the province of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, district police official Fazal Hanif told Reuters.
Unaccompanied women will be arrested and shopkeepers may be punished for selling items to women on their
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Helping
Jul 19th, 2013 5:59 pm | By Ophelia BensonAn end of the day amusement. Don’t be drinking anything when you watch this.
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The taboo of “You can’t talk about that”
Jul 19th, 2013 5:35 pm | By Ophelia BensonAnd speaking of don’t do that, Bruce Gorton did a column about geek sexism yesterday.
… Read the restWhen it comes to sexism geeks have a serious problem just talking about it.
We have such a huge problem talking about it that the fact that women gamers are talking about it is seen as censorship. Think about how twisted the logic has to be, that so many arguments amount to some guy telling women to shut up – for the sake of free speech.
And gaming isn’t the only place where this happens. The atheist community was rocked by women in atheism calling for an end to sexual harassment at conventions not that long ago.
Atheist activism currently focuses heavily around breaking the
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You don’t know what it’s like to be anything but what you are
Jul 19th, 2013 5:25 pm | By Ophelia BensonSpokesGay has joined the More Than Men blog and done a debut post. It’s titled Gays, Don’t Do That (see what he did there?) and it says really, don’t.
… Read the restNow. Let’s get right to the pissing-off-of-gay-doodz. Mainly white gay doodz. Before you wrap your peaches in freezer paper, though, understand this: All the things I list below I’ve been guilty of. Every one of us ambles about in an oblivion bubble about something(s). It’s part of the human condition. Doucheitude doesn’t have to be a terminal disease, but managing it requires acknowledging the illness.
And hoo-boy, is there a problem. These past two to three years have been a horrific. . . enlightenment. . . about the pervasive,
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Experiences inform
Jul 19th, 2013 3:39 pm | By Ophelia BensonObama made some remarks about race and context and experience and the criminal laws today.
Those sets of experiences inform how the African-American community interprets what happened one night in Florida, and it’s inescapable for people to bring those experiences to bear. The African-American community is also knowledgeable that there is a history of racial disparities in the application of our criminal laws.
That’s the “privilege” conversation. That conversation is not a reason to scream in panic and head for the hills. It’s not terrifying or disastrous to understand that people have different experiences and that sometimes your experiences result in your knowing less about a particular subject than other people’s experiences leave them. For instance, if you’re not black, … Read the rest
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Fetal heartbeat
Jul 19th, 2013 12:24 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe Texas Taliban continues its war on women, Amanda Marcotte reports. Fetal heartbeat this time. Got a heart beat? Abortion forbidden! Slut leaves the fetus there long enough to develop a pulse, she’s stuck with it, the slut.
… Read the restLike the lush at the bar who can’t stop himself from ordering one more round, some Texas Republicans don’t know when it’s time to give it up for the night. Drunk off the win of passing a bill into law that will shut down most abortion clinics in the state and ban abortions after 20 weeks, three Republican state legislators introduced yet another anti-abortion bill Thursday.
This one, which is even less likely to get far in the lower courts than
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Sin sin sin sin sin
Jul 19th, 2013 11:33 am | By Ophelia BensonAlex Gabriel reports on Creationism and fundamentalism in Keswick.
Alex transcribed much of it. AM=audience member; P=preacher.
… Read the restAM #10: No no no no no, I’m asking, d’you not think you are scared – you are scared?
P: I’m telling you what I think. I think that atheism is a crutch for people who are scared of Judgement Day, and they… they cling to the… the… the ridiculous lie of evolution in order to silence their conscience that tells them they are guilty before God, and that they know that they’re accountable because they’ve lied, stolen, looked at porn on the internet, when they’ve slept around, sinned outside of marriage. All sex outside of marriage of one man, one
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