… Read the restThe man never enters the frame, but we can tell he is older, and he must be much bigger than she is: the girl, still seated, cranes her face to look up at him. The calm confidence behind her large glasses snuffs out; her shoulders tense up, rising toward her ears….“I see your hesitancy,” he says…“I’m just doing a live and talking to some people,” she says, and glances towards her phone. That’s when he finally leaves her alone: not when he notices that she’s uncomfortable, but when he realizes that he is being watched.
The video (in two parts), posted to TikTok by the teenage user @maassassin_, immediately goes viral. Women,
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When he realizes he is being watched
May 11th, 2021 10:01 am | By Ophelia BensonYes, this is what it looks like
May 11th, 2021 9:05 am | By Ophelia BensonConfirmation that we saw what we thought we saw – that what we saw is what we thought it was.
https://twitter.com/peter_daly/status/1392037574898851840… Read the restEthics
May 10th, 2021 5:15 pm | By Ophelia BensonAllison Bailey says a thing, and guess who comes along to say “Nuh-uh.”
Regrettably the 'guidance' is, IMHO, partisan, incomplete and misleading, and if followed would cause schools to act unlawfully towards trans children. And who 'recognises' TT as education experts? Themselves?
— Robin Moira White (she/her) (@moira_robin) May 9, 2021
The trouble with that is, Robin Moira White is opposing counsel in Allison’s case against Stonewall. White should not be messing with Allison on social media.
… Read the restI have in trans cases from different perspectives, which requires grounding in what the law IS, not what folk would LIKE it to be. Regrettably this 'guidance' is not.
You didnt answer my question about the recognition of TT?
— Robin Moira White
“Those drugs can’t possibly be legal”
May 10th, 2021 4:37 pm | By Ophelia BensonIt’s so bad that people don’t even believe it when you tell them.
Institutional capture in action, methinks.
— James Barry (@JamesBarry1789) May 10, 2021
It was difficult to explain that the lawsuits are about RESTRICTING these drugs being given to children.
— James Barry (@JamesBarry1789) May 10, 2021
I then told my interlocutor “most kids on puberty blockers go on to take cross sex hormones”. The response: “well, where else are they gonna go, the poor hoors?”
— James Barry (@JamesBarry1789) May 10, 2021
But let’s be clear: puberty blockers are undeniably awful. Perhaps even actually evil. They are the definition of stopping growth and progress in its tracks.
— James Barry (@JamesBarry1789) May 10, 2021
And people don’t … Read the rest
Calm down Mister Fister
May 10th, 2021 1:00 pm | By Ophelia BensonIn cheerier news – Randy Rainbow has outdone himself.
https://twitter.com/RandyRainbow/status/1391753010200682498… Read the restSlaveowners’ holiday
May 10th, 2021 11:47 am | By Ophelia BensonHappy…Confederate Memorial Day?
South Carolina state government offices are closed Monday to mark Confederate Memorial Day.
Really. State government is on holiday to commemorate treason in defense of slavery. Cool that it’s the same state that is denying its citizens federal unemployment benefits because the state wants to force them to work in hotels and restaurants for shit pay in shit conditions…which is not as unlike slavery as it might be. It likely affects the same category of people, too.
South Carolina is among a handful of states in the South with such an official holiday. State offices in Alabama and Mississippi closed for their Confederate Memorial Days late last month.
Aka the Deep South aka the cotton belt.… Read the rest
No one intervenes
May 10th, 2021 11:37 am | By Ophelia BensonNow let’s talk about girls and shared public spaces.
to embark the train?? The young man who pushed her in does not immediately run off, like his mates. He seems shocked. He is the one walking over, hands to head, peering over. Not the employee, who is frozen. All of this could have been prevented instead it was let play out…/3
— The Countess (@TheCountessIE) May 10, 2021
… Read the restbc in this country "a girl is a half-formed thing." Not worthy of her full humanity. Evidentially, its ok for girls to get threatened & assaulted while boarding a train. No one intervenes. It is only a news story because this time, 1normalised harassment ends in catastrophe. 5/
— The Countess (@TheCountessIE)
Who owns public space?
May 10th, 2021 11:25 am | By Ophelia BensonI’ve watched this clip multiple times since yesterday – there’s a lot going on and it’s not possible to take in all of it in one viewing.
IRELAND: Where young men assault young women with impunity. We had been hearing reports of gangs of boys throwing coffee/water over female joggers. Now this. This young woman could have been killed. These girls are being forced to run the gauntlet to access public transport. 1/ https://t.co/BairBNWT3d
— The Countess (@TheCountessIE) May 10, 2021
One boy kicks a girl as she runs past, one spits on a girl as she runs past, they all spread out over the platform so that they’re in the way of anyone who is trying to get on … Read the rest
Slapp the journalists
May 9th, 2021 3:28 pm | By Ophelia BensonCatherine Belton, Nick Cohen tells us, has written a book about Russian plutocrats and their ways, and they are flocking to London courts to sue her into oblivion.
… Read the restThe former Moscow correspondent for the Financial Times now faces a pile-on from Russian billionaires on a scale this country has never witnessed. Rosneft, the Kremlin-dominated oil producer (market capitalisation circa $75bn) whose chief executive, president and chairman, Igor Sechin, began his rise to power as Vladimir Putin’s secretary in the 1990s, has lodged an action for libel. No further details were available at the court at the time of going to press.
Roman Abramovich, the Chelsea football boss (estimated net worth $15.3bn) is suing because of what
Our awareness is still low
May 9th, 2021 10:35 am | By Ophelia BensonBut have we been paying enough attention to the nons? People who aren’t a thing are people too you know! The BBC helps out by paying deep solemn reverent attention to those thrilling misunderstood long-neglected insufficiently advertised people the Aze.
In the UK, our awareness of asexuality – the experience of not feeling sexual attraction towards others – is still low.
Well it would be, wouldn’t it. It’s not generally something we need to know about other people, nor is it generally something other people need to know about us. Not feeling X towards other people is mostly just a personal [whatever] and thus not of general interest.
I really can’t stress enough how important it is to grasp … Read the rest
Many memorable lunches
May 9th, 2021 9:07 am | By Ophelia BensonA senior Sun reporter has died and tributes are pouring in.
https://twitter.com/ian_tolfts/status/1391168071075762177 https://twitter.com/whagerty/status/1391005008028741634That’s so sad John. Had many memorable lunches with him at the Gay Hussar.
— Andy Gardner (@AndyGcrime) May 8, 2021
https://twitter.com/AndrewJEwart/status/1391008084282290177 https://twitter.com/TomJHarper/status/1390992746517831683
There’s just this one tiny thing they’re forgetting to mention.
He murdered his wife.… Read the rest
Cheating in plain sight
May 9th, 2021 8:40 am | By Ophelia BensonSharron Davies has
hit out at[criticized] the decision to allow transgender weightlifter Laurel Hubbard to compete in the Olympics, describing it as ‘another kick in the teeth for female athletes’.
Parenthetically: I hate that UK metaphor of “hitting out at” for criticizing, and I think journalistic outlets should never use it, seeing as how it thoroughly poisons the well.
‘Sport is for all but it must be fair,’ said Davies, who won a silver medal in the 400 metres medley at the 1980 Moscow Games. ‘I am pro everyone doing sport but I feel sex, not self-identified gender, should be how we compete.’
And that’s not just a feeling, it’s a thought based … Read the rest
They risk punishment
May 8th, 2021 5:18 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe Times reports that employers punish employees who fail to parrot the dogma about trans people, which means that employers are punishing their employees for failing to tell stupid lies. That’s not a fair or reasonable setup.
… Read the restDozens of women have faced disciplinary action at work for offences such as saying JK Rowling is not transphobic, asking a question during equality training or requesting female-only lavatories, according to 40 campaigners on free speech.
In a letter to The Sunday Times, the campaigners say that the employers of a quarter of UK workers have signed up to a Diversity Champions scheme run by the LGBT charity Stonewall. It means if people question what the campaigners refer to as “Stonewall law”
All these famous American men
May 8th, 2021 11:57 am | By Ophelia BensonThe rise and fall (or fall and rise? or rise and fall and rise?) of an “influencer.”
Like cult-leaders, Instagram influencers must navigate a complex symbiosis with their followers to remain popular. Unlike cult-leaders, their lives are often funded by a commercial system of sponsored posts, a practice which Caroline abstains from. Instead, in March, as the world shut down, she started making money from selling topless photos on the platform ‘Only-Fans’.
So, photos with the tops cut off so that you get trees lopped in half or people whose faces stop at their nostrils? Doesn’t sound all that lucrative.
… Read the restI tell her the way she uses Instagram reminds me of how Sylvia Plath wrote poems: art as an act
How to include EVERYONE
May 8th, 2021 11:08 am | By Ophelia BensonYour instructions:
https://twitter.com/teaberryblue/status/1390688407609819138In other words it’s about women. Women are women. It saves a lot of trouble. Women who call themselves “trans men” or “nonbinary” are still women. Intersex women are women. The word “women” is all that’s required, and trying to delete it from the language is not a good idea, given the subordinate status women have had imposed on us.
https://twitter.com/teaberryblue/status/1390689010264195074You mean women planning “to hand a baby off” – which itself is a description that should get more careful thought than how to justify deleting the words “women” and “mother” from the language.
https://twitter.com/teaberryblue/status/1390706967878979589No. I’ll go on calling women “women,” thanks, and you don’t get to tell any of us not to.… Read the rest
That was then
May 8th, 2021 5:17 am | By Ophelia BensonFor a few minutes there most Republicans in Congress accepted that the insurrection wasn’t the best idea ever. They’re back to normal now though.
… Read the restOdds are that the erstwhile Republican party comrades of Representative Liz Cheney of Wyoming will soon vote to purge her from the ranks of their leadership. Cheney, who occupies the third-highest position in the House Republican Conference and is the daughter of former vice-president Dick Cheney, survived a similar removal effort in early February, after she was one of only 10 House Republicans who voted to impeach former president Donald Trump. At the time, House Republicans decided to retain Cheney as conference chair by a 145-61 margin, while the House minority leader, Kevin McCarthy, told
Wage slavery
May 8th, 2021 4:31 am | By Ophelia BensonWhen in doubt, shaft the workers.
South Carolina will leave the federal unemployment programs providing extra money to jobless residents in light of “unprecedented” workforce shortages across the state, Gov. Henry McMaster announced on Thursday.
The state will opt out of the coronavirus pandemic assistance programs beginning June 30. The federal benefits include an extra weekly $300 to unemployed workers that was scheduled to run through early September.
States’ rights! States’ rights to starve their workers into accepting crap jobs with crap pay and crap conditions.
… Read the restThe labor shortage has affected all areas of the state’s economy, state government officials said, with the hotel and food service industries especially hard-hit. McMaster claimed the shortage was created in large part
Guest post: A helpful glossary of genderist bullshit
May 7th, 2021 5:42 pm | By Ophelia BensonOriginally a comment by Your Name’s not Bruce? on Non-binary in Huddersfield.
The media outlet reporting this story has included a helpful glossary of genderist bullshit to indoctrinate (or at least confuse) its readers. Let’s play along!
Terms you need to understand
I seriously doubt it.
There are a lot of words used within the LGBT community that you may need help to understand. Here are some of the key definitions you may not know, as explained by Stonewall.
I might not know them because they’re wrong or made up. The likelyhood of anything from Stonewall leading to an improvement in my “understanding” is close to zero..
… Read the rest• Non-binary – the term used to describe people who don’t feel
An insatiable quest for the spotlight
May 7th, 2021 4:39 pm | By Ophelia BensonHow’s Trump’s forced retirement going? Oh you know – full of revenge and plots and shouting.
… Read the restTrump is moving to handpick members of the House GOP leadership team — relentlessly attacking Rep. Liz Cheney of Wyoming, the No. 3 House Republican, and endorsing Rep. Elise Stefanik of New York to replace her.
He is plotting to take down Republican lawmakers who voted to impeach him for inciting the deadly Jan. 6 insurrection on the U.S. Capitol, while continuing to stoke the false claims of a stolen election that has become a dangerous rallying cry for the party.
And he is playing host to a burbling stream of Republican well-wishers — including House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy (Calif). and Sen.
Learn more about gender expression for toddlers
May 7th, 2021 3:31 pm | By Ophelia BensonA brief conversation.
Maybe educators are more interested in creating a classroom where students can learn. Just a thought.
— Ophelia Benson (@OpheliaBenson) May 7, 2021
What on earth does a leering cartoon horse do to make students feel safe and appreciated?
— Ophelia Benson (@OpheliaBenson) May 7, 2021
I haven’t had any reply. But. But! You see that one (1) like? It’s on the Garbs tweet, not mine. Guess whose like it is – go on, guess.
It’s Gegi’s! Gegi herhimtheirself!
No like for me though. Gegi isn’t very incloosive.… Read the rest
