Something intensely personal

The BBC starts with a man who says he is a woman.

The diamond grass of Cathkin Park is glinting in the winter sun as Ellie Gomersall reflects on something intensely personal – her identity. It is a bitterly beautiful December day on the south side of Glasgow and Ms Gomersall, 23, is telling us about “coming out” as a woman.

You can’t “come out” as a woman. Coming out is a lesbian/gay thing, and that in turn is because being lesbian or gay has not always been socially acceptable, to put it mildly. It’s also, I suppose, because the majority is straight, so the working assumption about people is generally that they’re straight, so “coming out” is making it clear to that majority that the person doing the out-coming is in the not-straight minority. Other categories of people don’t have to come out because their category is obvious, written on their bodies.

But of course the priests of trans ideology like to call it coming out because that assumes it’s real. “Here is the hidden truth about me, that you didn’t know because I give every appearance of being a man. I’m not a man, I’m a magic special unicorny WOMAN. There, now I’ve come out.”

Ms Gomersall is currently president of the National Union of Students Scotland, although she is speaking to BBC News in a personal capacity.

But the fact that he is currently president of the National Union of Students Scotland is probably why the BBC chose him to talk to. What they talk to him about is how hard it is to get a gender recognition certificate.

The Scottish government – led by the Scottish National Party but also including ministers from the Scottish Green Party, of which Ms Gomersall is a member – wants to remove some of those hurdles, making the process quicker and easier.

The process, that is, of making it official and a matter of law that this man is a woman.

Ms Gomersall is a strong supporter of the legislation, which she says would make her life easier and more dignified.

But it would make the lives of countess women harder and less dignified, but Gomersall cares about Gomersall, not all those stupid pesky women.

She argues that gender identity should not be a matter for the state.

“I think ultimately the only person who can really describe my own identity, my own gender is me,” she insists.

That’s the ideology, but it’s bullshit. One, it’s a Cheats’ Charter; two, it’s not true – people are not always right about themselves.

It’s unfortunate that this fad is so narcissism-friendly. All it has, literally, is this bone-headed clueless idea that people are infallible about their own “identities” and self-awareness. We’re not! We can’t be, because we can’t see ourselves except through our own eyes. That’s a bias. We favor ourselves because we are ourselves. We can’t help it, although we can try to correct for it, mitigate it and so on. Pro-self bias is absolutely built in, so the fatuous claim that “ultimately the only person who can really describe my own identity, my own gender is me” is the opposite of the truth. Ultimately you are the last person who can be trusted to give an honest account of yourself; we all are.

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