… Read the restMy name is Tiger Reed. I am a 44-year-old librarian in St. Louis, Missouri. Since 2016, I have been married to Jamie Reed. She is the whistleblower who exposed the alarming effects of “gender-affirming” medical care given to minors at the Washington University Transgender Center at St. Louis Children’s Hospital in a 2023 article for The Free Press. Her story shocked the nation. I am also “Dad” to the five children we are raising together—two from Jamie’s previous marriage and three we have adopted.
And now, after 13 years of living as a man, I am in the process of tapering down my weekly testosterone injections to begin the process of becoming a woman again.
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Critics were right
Sep 30th, 2024 11:59 am | By Ophelia BensonQueering the saints
Sep 30th, 2024 9:52 am | By Ophelia BensonLet’s visit the LGBT page for St Jude’s Primary School (Church of England of course) in Southwark.
LGBT stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender. The “plus” represents other sexual identities.
This is primary school, remember. The youngest kids are 5.
In 2018, almost 250,000 people in London identified as Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual and there are now at least 20,000 children growing up in same-sex parent families. Many children will have or know relatives, family friends or neighbours who identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Trans.
Notice how the “Trans” bit is added on. Start with LGB, then when they’re not looking add the T.
… Read the restIt is important to us at St Jude’s that we represent
Quietly transferred
Sep 30th, 2024 9:24 am | By Ophelia BensonYet again…there aren’t enough swears in the universe. Genevieve Gluck tells us:
… Read the restReduxx has learned that a man serving a 30-year sentence for the fatal beating of a 55-year old woman has quietly been transferred into New Jersey’s Edna Mahan Correctional Facility for Women. Elliot Rivera Jr., 35, now calls himself Jamie Belladonna and is described as “female” within the state Department of Corrections (DOC) system.
Rivera’s total prison term amounts to 40 years, to be run concurrently, on the basis of two convictions. In November 2011, he was sentenced to a mandatory minimum term of 30 years for the 2009 murder of Patricia Cantaloupe. In a separate case, Rivera was sentenced to 10 years in prison for carjacking
Flawed but vital self-obsession
Sep 30th, 2024 5:07 am | By Ophelia BensonGuardian headline:
Will Ferrell’s Netflix doc Will & Harper is flawed but vital viewing for cis people
Vital? I really doubt that. It’s not as if we don’t get lectured on the subject enough already.
Let’s admit it: cisgender people are really curious about us trans women.
Ok stop right there. First sentence and already you’re off the rails. No, we really really aren’t. We’ve heard way more than we want to about trans women. I can’t begin to express how much more we’ve heard than we ever wanted to. The only thing we can be described as “curious” about is where the hell do you get the nerve?
… Read the restThey want to know things such as: what’s it like to
Or Mexico, which is cheaper
Sep 29th, 2024 4:46 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe Times (the London one) slobbers all over a man who wants to order up a customized baby for himself. What a shame there are no baby factories.
In recent years starry couples have raised the profile of surrogacy, including Kim Kardashian and Kanye West, Robbie Williams and Ayda Field, and Elton John and David Furnish.
Oh well then, if famous people can order up luxury babies so can any man.
To go solo, Northwood must first find a woman willing to go through the invasive procedure of donating an egg, which will be inseminated in a lab. Then he needs to find another to undergo IVF with the resulting embryo, followed by pregnancy and giving birth.
Why should any … Read the rest
Nonononononono
Sep 29th, 2024 4:22 pm | By Ophelia BensonThis god certainly hates women and young girls.
Forcing girls—especially minors—into marriage is crime!
Yet in some countries, such atrocities occur daily, where girls are subjected to physical & mental torture by families & coerced into marriages against their will.
We need to stand for freedom of women. pic.twitter.com/nbL96XUrIS
— Jahanzeb Wesa (@JahanzebWesa) September 29, 2024
There is no trap
Sep 29th, 2024 11:32 am | By Ophelia BensonRevisiting this for a second…
Trump: All the stupid people said I fell into her trap. They said I fell into her trap. She can’t set a mental trap. I didn’t fall into her trap. There is no trap. I didn’t fall into her trap pic.twitter.com/5yaHJqexZe
— Kamala HQ (@KamalaHQ) September 28, 2024
The hands.
You get the big accordion gesture.
You get the tiny wedge gesture.
You get the medium accordion gesture.
You get the big accordion gesture then some active playing the accordion gestures.
You get the jumping wedge gesture, then the diving bird gesture once, twice, part of a third time that transitions back to the accordion.
The gestures are…weird.… Read the rest
But he behaves like a child
Sep 29th, 2024 10:11 am | By Ophelia Benson… Read the restThe world’s richest person, Elon Musk, has
hit back[retorted] after not being invited to the UK government’s International Investment Summit. He was not invited due to his social media posts during last month’s riots, the BBC understands.“I don’t think anyone should go to the UK when they’re releasing convicted pedophiles in order to imprison people for social media posts,” Mr Musk claimed on X. Earlier this month, the government released some prisoners to reduce prison overcrowding, but no-one serving sentences for sex offences
were[was] included.…
David Yelland, a public relations specialist and former editor of the Sun newspaper, told the BBC that if Mr Musk were to attend the summit,
Before identifying as
Sep 29th, 2024 9:12 am | By Ophelia BensonWhen reporting becomes incoherent:
A trans woman has been jailed for six and a half years after being found guilty of rape following a night out. Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. The attack took place before Secker began identifying as a woman.
Might as well say the attack took place before Secker began identifying as a potato. His penis doesn’t retroactively disappear once he starts “identifying as” a woman.
Secker, 35, of Lowbourne, near Melksham, has been ordered to carry out
hersentence in a male prison and will remain on the sex offenders register indefinitely.
Don’t “respect the pronouns” of men who rape women.
… Read the restThroughout the sentencing hearing, barristers and the
Not ready for primetime
Sep 29th, 2024 8:12 am | By Ophelia BensonHe thinks he’s a standup comedy genius.
Trump: Joe Biden became mentally impaired. Kamala was born that way. She was born that way. And if you think about it, only a mentally disabled person could have allowed this to happen to our country. pic.twitter.com/v6Yo6uINp5
— Acyn (@Acyn) September 28, 2024
Guest post: A cult of feelings rather than a political organisation
Sep 28th, 2024 5:52 pm | By Ophelia BensonOriginally a comment by Der Durchwanderer on Gluttons for punishment.
The Green Party, in any given country in the West, has more closely resembled a cult of feelings far more than it has a political organisation. In Germany, where our Greens have been part of the actual government for the last few years, the party is not only completely through the looking-glass on social issues which have absolutely nothing to do with preserving the environment (and some of which threaten the very fabric of German social cohesion), it has done far more to harm the environment than any party since the founding of the Federal Republic.
This is not hyperbolic extrapolation from the Greens’ irraitional anti-nuclearism, either, though that … Read the rest
Liar says what?
Sep 28th, 2024 5:15 pm | By Ophelia BensonWithout hyperbole they have nothing. Their fundamental claims are a denial of reality, and their sweaty efforts to make that denial of reality mandatory for everyone are a rejection of sanity and of basic justice.
So what we get is a nonstop torrent of hyperbole.
No matter your views on her stated reasons for quitting, Rosie Duffield has made a political career out of dehumanising one of the most marginalised groups in society.
She should never have been allowed the privilege of resigning. Labour should have withdrawn the whip long ago.
— Nadia Whittome MP (@NadiaWhittomeMP) September 28, 2024
It’s not “dehumanising” people to say they can’t change sex. Humans can’t change species; is it dehumanizing to say that? Humans … Read the rest
Green Party identifies as having bright future
Sep 28th, 2024 11:09 am | By Ophelia BensonThe BBC tells us the Green Party fucked around and found out.
A bitter legal battle could blow a hole in the Green Party of England Wales’s general election campaign funds. The BBC understands courts could force the party to pay between £200,000 and £400,000 if it loses a case against former deputy leader Dr Shahrar Ali.
The party’s financial auditors note the case has left “uncertainty” about its ability to keep running normally. The Greens are proposing a 50% increase in membership fees to build funds.
So maybe it was a mistake to punish and shun Ali for understanding that men are not women.
… Read the restA Green Party spokesperson said: “Like many organisations, the Green Party is facing some
Gluttons for punishment
Sep 27th, 2024 6:24 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe Green Party is taking it well.
A senior activist who won an unlawful discrimination claim against the Green Party of England and Wales has been expelled and told he cannot return for at least two years.
In February, a judge found that the Greens had unlawfully discriminated against Dr Shahrar Ali during a row over his gender-critical beliefs. Ali, who is a former deputy leader, was awarded damages of £9,100. The Greens were also ordered to pay him a further £90,000 in costs in September.
He has now been excluded from the party for a fixed term of two years as a result of complaints made about him in 2022.
What were the complaints? What terrible thing did … Read the rest
Guest post: You’re not paying the price
Sep 27th, 2024 11:47 am | By Ophelia BensonOriginally a comment by Your Name’s not Bruce? on Read the room.
Would Ferrell have been as enthusiastic if his friend had come out as a bear, or a lawn mower? Would he have been as keen to travel across America if Harper had decided he was a toddler rather than a woman? Would he have changed his friend’s diapers? Would he have been willing to pay that price, to carry that burden, to put up with the imposition? (Quite apart from the hit to his reputation that passing a grown man off as an infant would have inflicted. That would have been fetish too far.) I doubt it. Well, by accepting him as a women, and encouraging (insisting?) … Read the rest
Read the room
Sep 27th, 2024 9:03 am | By Ophelia BensonThe sheer blind stupidity and absence of thought in this stagger the mind.
Will Ferrell says transphobia exists because “I think we fear what we don’t know.”
"I don’t know why trans people are meant to be threatening to me as a cis male. I don’t know why Harper is threatening to me…why would you care if somebody’s happy? Why is that threatening to… pic.twitter.com/XylagVvSmB
— Variety (@Variety) September 26, 2024
“I don’t know why trans people are meant to be threatening to me as a cis male. I don’t know why Harper is threatening to me…why would you care if somebody’s happy? Why is that threatening to you? If the trans community is a threat to you, I think … Read the rest
Trending
Sep 27th, 2024 8:11 am | By Ophelia BensonAn unhappy distinction for New Zealand.
Doctors are prescribing up to seven times more puberty blockers for gender dysmorphia to young transgender patients in New Zealand than other similar countries, a new medical reseach paper has found.
The paper published by academics Charlotte Paul, Simon Tegg and Sarah Donovan, was published today in the New Zealand Medical Journal.
In their paper, “Use of puberty-blocking hormones for gender dysphoria in New Zealand: descriptive analysis and international comparisons”, the authors found that use here was approximately 1.7 times higher than in the Netherlands, and between 3.5 and 6.9 times higher than in England and Wales, and 3.9 times higher than in Denmark.
Not a race you want to win.
H/t … Read the rest
Legally an aardvark
Sep 27th, 2024 7:47 am | By Ophelia BensonThere are things the law can’t do. Lots of things, actually. A big thing the law can’t do is change physical reality. You can pass a law saying the sun orbits the earth, but the sun will continue to not orbit the earth. The sun is not subject to human laws. There are lots of things you can replace “the sun” with in that sentence.
https://twitter.com/runthinkwrite/status/1839650260211081331“Caster Semenya is legally female, was assigned female at birth, raised as female, and identifies as female. It seems clear on the face of it, therefore, that Semenya is female.”
Interesting choice of word, “seems.” “Seems, madam? Nay, it is; I know not ‘seems.'”
In fact, of course, no it doesn’t seem clear … Read the rest
Scion shmion
Sep 27th, 2024 7:27 am | By Ophelia BensonWeirdo Kennedy can’t get a date for the prom.
… Read the restOn August 23, Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. suspended his presidential campaign. Citing the war in Ukraine and the “war on our children,” as well as “relentless, systematic censorship and media control,” the scion of the famous Democratic political family announced his support for the Republican candidate.
“These are the principal causes that persuaded me to leave the Democratic Party and run as an independent, and now to throw my support to President Trump,” he added.
In reality, Kennedy had tried just a week earlier to sell his support to the Harris campaign in exchange for a position in her cabinet, preferably as Secretary of Health and Human Services. After getting
