Author: Ophelia Benson

  • More on Tête-à-Tête

    These icons of intellectual honesty and individual responsibility lied a lot to the people close to them.

  • India Has a Long Rationalist Tradition

    Despite a tenacious western orientalism which overvalues Indian religiosity.

  • Return of Philip Rieff

    ‘I think that the orthodox are in the miserable situation of being orthodox for therapeutic reasons.’

  • Sad Dupes Thesis Joins Enemy Within Idea

    David Aaronovitch tries not to believe things for which there is no evidence.

  • Religion, Uncertainty and My Mother

    There are people who are very dear to you, a childhood friend for instance, that you’ll never see again in your life. You don’t know you are never going to see them again so that doesn’t hurt much, or doesn’t hurt at all. You think there’s always a chance of bumping into them someday even though that’s never going to happen. However, when you consciously know that you will never again see someone you love it’s different. That simple fact is like a great big wall. A wall that seems impossible to surmount.

    My mother passed away a few weeks ago. Since then, some persons have tried to convince me that religion is the best way to jump that wall. That only religion can answer such ultimate questions as: “What’s beyond death?” or “What is the meaning of life?” It’s all about having faith, they say. The empirical method doesn’t work here. There’s only one little detail… in order to believe, you have to ignore some minor facts, such as evolution or the age of the universe and, most importantly, you have to stop asking such silly questions as why Adam and Eve had bellybuttons. Although it’s tempting, I’m afraid that my brain cannot be rewired like that. So, is there another way out? Can you get through this kind of pain without religion? I think you can, among other things because the idea that you can’t is based in several false assumptions.

    The first is that your pain is directly linked to these fundamental questions. Do I really need to know what happens after life or what is its meaning in order to jump that wall? …In fact healing seems to come more from acceptance. As you gradually get used to the wall it slowly begins to crumble. And you don’t need to practice any faith for that. But acceptance is precisely the kind of thing that religion helps you achieve, they say. Maybe that’s true, but in order to achieve it you have to pretend that the wall is not really there or that it is in fact a door to another world. And I can’t do that.

    Another false idea is that without religion everything is meaningless. “You need a faith to have a meaningful existence, to find out why you’re here, to feel hope… Without it you become a robot or a beast.” Apparently, you need to believe that you’re part of a master plan in order to feel important. But if I’m still going to die then am I not a disposable part of that plan? That doesn’t make me feel valuable at all. And going to heaven seems to me more like a consolation prize. You’re sent to a nice and quiet place to retire when you’re no longer useful in this world. In fact, heaven seems a lot like Florida. And I don’t want to go there. Never. So, I prefer to think that I’m here for no particular reason. In that way I can become the master of my own plan. If I make a difference in somebody else’s life then I can feel really valuable. And, by realizing what an improbable arrangement of matter I am I can truly appreciate how lucky I am to be alive. All that is meaningful and transcendent.

    Another wrong assumption is that religion has the patent on meaning searching (if it does then I owe a lot of money to the Vatican and other faith monopolies). The quest for meaning is universal, a part of human nature. I don’t know, but it could be that it has its roots in the way our early ancestors learned to take advantage of their environment: What are things, plants and animals for? What is their use or function? Their value and meaning are directly linked to that. We appear to have evolved to see the world through these lenses. So if everything around me has a use or function and therefore a value and a meaning the obvious next question is: What is my own function in the world, my own value and meaning? You don’t need to have any religion to pose that questions or search for the answers.

    In any case, I think that here the asking is more important than the answering. So the next false assumption of the religious view is that without answers you suffer, that uncertainty is always painful.

    Science is generally the one that solves the puzzles and provides certainty. But in this particular area certainty appears to come from religion. So if you choose a faith you have answers. If you don’t you have only questions. Hence, believers argue, religion is the only path to mend the suffering that stems from a lack of answers. However, if uncertainty isn’t necessarily painful then nothing needs to be mended. In fact, the mere act of wondering feels like a pleasing and meaningful way to spend one’s life. Therefore, you can find purpose and meaning even if you don’t have answers to the ultimate questions. And ironically, by giving definite answers, religion is actually precluding people from wondering and from finding this kind of significant experience.

    Thus, if you are the kind of person that needs something more than a Bible to believe in the answers that religion offers, then you’re saved from certainty. Doubt is an alternative way to jump the wall I’m talking about. That’s something that my mother taught me. A small example of why she made a big difference in so many lives and her existence was so meaningful.

  • All the Appropriate Emotions

    I read something this morning in Frank Cioffi’s essay* ‘Was Freud a Liar?’ that grabbed my attention. It reminded me of something. I knew what, too.

    Freud did not fall into the seduction error through believing his patients’ stories; he did not fall into it through ignorance of the fact that persons sexually molested in infancy may, nevertheless, not succumb to neurosis; he did not fall into it through underestimating the frequency of seduction in the general population. Freud fell into the seduction error through the use of a procedure which to this day remains the basis of the psychoanalytic reconstruction of infantile life: the attribution to patients of certain infantile experiences because they appear to the analyst to be living “through them with all the appropriate emotions.”

    What did that remind me of? John Mack. You know John Mack? I’ve talked about him a little, but not enough, not yet. I’ve had it in mind to talk about him more though. He’s the Harvard psychologist who thought there was something to the whole alien abduction thing – not ‘something to’ it in the sense of as cultural phenomenon or symptom of mass lunacy, but in the sense of maybe real aliens really abducting real people and taking them onto real alienships and really impregnating them and doing medical exams on them. For real. And why did he think this? His main reason was that they had such strong emotions when they talked about it. They seemed (they appeared to the analyst) really really really frightened, upset, disturbed, traumatized.

    And what is so interesting about that – or one thing, at least, that is so interesting about it – is that it seems so obvious that people having very strong emotions about something isn’t necessarily a reason to think that something refers to a real event. It seems so obvious 1) that there are other possible explanations and 2) that the other possible explanations are a great deal less unlikely than the alien abduction [of just a few people who can produce no physical evidence] scenario is. It’s interesting that such a bizarrely faulty bit of reasoning could be perpetrated by a Harvard psychologist. (Harvard thought so too. Harvard blushed. Harvard was not altogether pleased.) Credulity on that scale is surprising in an academic. Well, maybe it’s not. I know several people who would immediately tell me that that’s just the kind of person it’s not surprising in. They could have a point.

    *Originally a radio talk for BBC 3 in 1973, published in The Listener, and in 1998 in the Frederick Crews edited collection Unauthorized Freud.

  • Tidying Up

    I wanted to make more easily available the useful work Allen Esterson has done on the changes Hizb ut-Tahrir has made on its website, which he posted in comments on the previous N&C.

    It is significant that some of the language the organization has had on its website has been removed, or toned down, presumably to make it more amenable for Western consumption. For instance, the statement that “There is no middle position or compromise solution in Islam” used to appear on the website, along with the statement: “The terminology of compromise did not appear amongst Muslims until the modern age. It is a foreign terminology and its source is the West and the Capitalist ideology. This is the ideology whose creed is based upon a compromise solution.”

    At the time I accessed this I noted the URL (either earlier this year, or last year). It is now a blank page.

    Again, the page “WHAT IS THE CALIPHATE (or KHILAFAH)?” disappeared for a while, and now reappears considerably toned down.

    For example, the following about the Khaleefah (Clerical Leader) no longer appears: “These ahadith are clear statements of the fact that Muslims cannot have more than one Khaleefah, and if another person tries to wrest his power it is necessary to kill that person… If anyone disputed with the Khaleefah in order to break up the State or to put himself forward as Khaleefah, he should be killed.”

    This is replaced by: “Accountability [of Khaleefah]: – He can also be accounted by individuals, political groups, scholars, and an elected people’s assembly.”

    As for Sharia Law, it’s really very benign – most of the time: “The judiciary cannot be influenced by the rulers while investigating a case. Any accusation of criminal offence needs to be investigated and proved, often with a much higher burden of proof than in democratic states. Punishments in Islam are very variable – some more lenient than that in the modern day. However, the hudood punishments for a small number of offences are prohibitively harsh, deterring people from committing these offences.”

    Out goes: “The establishment of a Khaleefah is an obligation upon all Muslims in the world. Performing this duty, like any of the duties prescribed by Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Ta’Ala) upon the Muslims, is an urgent obligation in which there can be no choice or complacency. Negligence in performing this duty is one of the greatest sins, for which Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Ta’Ala) punishes severely.”

    I think we all know what is meant by a severe punishment under Sharia law.

  • Dowd Produces the Opposite of Synergy

    Wisecracks are reductive and anti-ruminative; they don’t encourage deeper analysis, they stymie it.

  • Pollitt Reads Dowd, Who Doesn’t Read Pollitt

    Dowd’s book is a Feminism Is Dead polemic, put through a Dowdian styleblender.

  • Gordon Wood Reviews Sean Wilentz

    Avoids ‘bargain basement Nietzsche and Foucault’.

  • Voltaire’s Enemy was the Infâme

    Which was not JC but some of the forces of clerical reaction and feudal injustice.

  • It Gets in Everywhere

    It’s funny about this piece by Ziauddin Sardar – it gave me quite a turn when I read it a few days ago, because I’ve been writing an article that talks about exactly, but exactly, an issue he discusses. It’s a rather important one, too, and one in need of as much clarity of thought as possible. Getting it wrong causes suffering all over the place.

    The bearded and elegantly attired supporters of Hizb ut-Tahrir (HT), the fundamentalist Muslim group, like to emphasise the non-violent nature of their party. As a recent press release put it, they “have never resorted to armed struggle or violence”. This is correct as far as it goes. While HT has openly engaged in the politics of hatred, particularly towards the Jews, it has not, strictly speaking, advocated violence. But this does not mean that it is not a violent organisation.

    Bingo. That’s an evasive tactic that a lot of groups and individuals resort to: saying a group has never resorted to violence or never injured or harmed anyone – which is true as far as it goes – but is therefore highly misleading. Violence isn’t just clouting someone with a two-by-four; injury isn’t just slicing someone up with a machete; harm isn’t just running over someone with a lawn mower. Therefore, it is not good enough to say that a group is non-violent if, for instance, it doesn’t commit violence itself but does encourage and praise and validate and romanticize it in others; or if it trains other people (who are officially not part of the group in question) to commit violence; or if it writes propaganda for violent groups while not telling the complete truth about those groups’ activities; and so on. It has been deeply exasperating seeing defenses of Hizb ut-Tahrir that insist on the group’s non-violence as if direct literal physical violence were the only possible reason to criticize HT. But there are other reasons. Groups that, for instance, want to take some people’s rights away by peaceful means, may be non-violent but they’re not therefore beneficent.

    But this does not mean that it is not a violent organisation. During a recent debate on PTV, the Pakistani satellite channel, a prominent member of HT told me emphatically: “The idea of compromise does not exist in Islam.” This is standard HT rhetoric, and it explains why the group is deemed dangerous and worthy of being proscribed. Intolerance of that kind is a natural precursor of, and invitation to, violence.

    Exactly. Well said Mr Sardar. If only more people would see that.

    In fact, violence is central to HT’s goals. Its primary objective is to establish a caliphate. It seeks, I have been told on numerous occasions, a “great Islamic state” ruled by a single caliph who would apply Islam “completely to all Islamic lands” and eventually to “the whole world”. What would be applied “completely” is the sharia, Islamic law. No wonder they recognise no compromise. Their ideology argues that there is only one way Muslims can or should be ruled, that those who form this caliphate have the right to rule, that all others must submit unconditionally and that only this political interpretation of Islam is valid and legitimate. In other words, the caliphate of Hizb ut-Tahrir’s vision can be established only by doing violence to all other interpretations of Islam and all Muslims who do not agree with it – not to mention the violence it must do to the rest of the world, which also must eventually succumb.

    Violence isn’t just one guy punching you in the face, or even just one guy blowing up the bus you’re riding in. It’s also a bunch of guys enforcing a narrow sexist punitive theocratic law on you and on everyone. That’s a very thorough-going, far-reaching kind of violence – that’s why it’s called totalitarian. It governs everything – ‘completely’ – and permits no escape. That’s real violence.

  • Contributions

    A couple of amusing items sent by readers – by readers who are the creators of said amusing items.

    John Emerson has a little rumination on Freud – possibly scurrilous, he says, but surely that’s a good thing.

    Read Civilization and its Discontents lately? Remember the part about men peeing on fires to put them out? And why women like to weave? (Hint: it has to do with pubic hairs. Funny old women.)

    So John pondered.

    I imagined a band of cave men gathered around a fire like the one I saw, incontinently and ecstatically squirting their tiny streams of urine in the futile effort to extinguish the raging fire, while at the same time their resentful, feminist wives tried furiously to weave themselves little fake penises even more useless than the men’s real penises. And became convinced that the human race, deluded as it was, wasn’t going to make it. We are, as a species, like Lewis Carroll’s “bread-and-butterfly”, incapable of survival.

    The other item, from Dan Green, is a nice new guru with a happy message for us all. I feel more hopeful already.

  • French Intellectuals Speak Up at Last

    Andre Glucksmann and Bernard-Henri Levy say a few words.

  • Olivier Roy: Fundamentalists Conspicuously Absent

    Contrary to the calls of many liberals, increased emphasis on multiculturalism is not the answer.

  • A C Grayling on Libertines and Free Thought

    Atheists were libertines, libertines were naughty, because atheists were naughty.

  • Epistemology Quiz

    Undiscovered ants in the Amazon…

  • Nick Cohen Says Food is a Class Issue

    A healthy eater would brand herself as a toff and be picked on for being ‘too healthy’ and ‘too brainy’.