The title is perfect:
How Do I Define My Gender if No One Is Watching Me?
How indeed? But we mustn’t point out that the whole idea of “defining” one’s “gender” is entirely about who is watching the Precious Self.
By Alex Marzano-Lesnevich
Mx. Marzano-Lesnevich writes extensively on transgender issues and is working on a memoir about nonbinary identities.
In other words Mx. Marzano-Lesnevich has nothing in her his their head other than this fiction of trans and non-binary idennninies.
When the lockdown started he she they thought it would be a nice rest from taking the idenniny out on parade.
… Read the restAlone in my apartment, I imagined that all my difficulties in being seen and recognized as transgender-nonbinary would evaporate.